Before you can understand what you’re doing wrong with your love life, you have to know who you are in order to find your match. Identifying what your assets are and how to maximize them is key.
Understanding your lifestyle and how it is working for or against you is the difference between meeting someone great and meeting no one at all.
Uncover who is right for you based on who you are because
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“The program so far has been very fulfilling. When I started, I didn’t know what to expect. I was primarily interested in the matchmaking component, but remained open-minded. Soon after, I realized that I was embarking upon a journey to self-discovery.
…Each week, as I look forward to my next session with Jasmine, I have become more and more confident in her matchmaking process; because not only have I become more clear and have gotten to know myself better, but Jasmine has also taken the time to get to know me…” — Val
Finding your match requires more than a checklist. It requires a commitment to understanding who you are because finding someone compatible requires an in-depth look into YOU.
What's important to me as your matchmaker is your dating story. Your story is key to uncovering the why behind your choices and unlocks the who and how of finding your match.
I have worked with high-profile and successful professional singles for over 15 years, and what I have learned along the way is that matching is less of a numbers game as it is about strategy.
Matchmaking clients undergo a 4-week discovery period where we discuss your dating preferences, relationship history, and future goals.
I conduct interviews with friends and family for a rounded picture of who you are and analyze this data to uncover what you need for relationship longevity and what you want for compatibility and companionship.
This inward look is essential and leads to more successful matches with individuals who match YOU, instead of using a list with check-boxes that have little to no context.
Dating for most singles involves the same cycle of steps:
Meet someone > Go on a date > Date Sucks, They Suck > Stop dating
This method of dating often leads to dating fatigue. That is, the process becomes tiresome to the point that one retreats from dating altogether.
You don’t have to waste time on bad dates in order to find quality. I will show you why your current methods for meeting people are not working, how to pick partners who align with your needs/wants, and how to date with purpose by only investing time with people you’re excited about.
One of my favorite quotes about preparation says,
Most daters look at dating as a project to complete. They mentally check a box marking an item as DONE, but rarely prepare for dating in advance.
Success at dating requires preparation. Whether you’re online dating, meeting people casually or winging it on mobile apps, preparation is the difference between having great dates with people you’re excited about and those you’d rather not.
You will learn how to create a successful dating profile, where to meet like-minded singles and how to attract quality people online and in-person.
Dsicover how to conquer and kill bad dating habits that are limiting your dating prospects One of the greatest and often overlooked areas of your partner search lies in the habits we form as daters. Bad habits can manifest as poor communication, limiting beliefs, trust issues or poor partner choices; each contributing to the cycle of bad dates and relationships with people we’re not too thrilled about.
You will receive a step-by-step process for how to conquer and kill bad habits that are limiting your dating prospects.
Somewhere in your dating life, you established a definition for what a “quality” and “good” partner means. You’ve based all of your relationship choices on its meaning whether those definitions were accurate or not.
To help you in this next phase in your love life, we will explore your limiting beliefs that are harming your dating prospects, and create new, healthy definitions to broaden your chances of meeting someone great.
The most important part of the dating process is the commitment you make to it.
Casually checking in and out is not going to get you on the path towards a long-term relationship. Giving you the proper tools to help you succeed will help you reach your ultimate dating goals.
⭐Traditional "coaching" where I teach you how to date
⭐A better way to remain picky (or stick in your bad habits)
⭐An excuse not to put in the work